The Lessons Learned in Life

     Not too young and not too old but; as far as I have seen life and people, I have learnt that the only relationship we have in this world is with Ourselves . We are our Best Friends and our Greatest Enemy . Not our family, nor friends or your loved ones or enemies but us, only and only me myself can make me or destroy me . Expectations are just an escape used by us to disguise our incapabilities. Why would to expect something from someone in the first place..... Because you do not believe in yourself.      Of course, I don't deny the fact that we came into this world because of our Parents, we are given our names by Others, raised by them, loved by them but most of all we are here for the US. Obviously, we need a helping hand or someone to just be there for us but you cannot expect them to get you through.      Definitely, Friends, Family, Love, Well-wishers all of them everyone are the ESSENCE OF LIFE......  Life's Inco...

             It's funny how all of us think that we are good, something made me have a thought on this that  "How can we say that we are Good until and unless we do not know how Bad we can actually be." Because to know your Strongest you first need to know your Weakest and to know your Good or to do or be Good you first need to overcome something called bad. We cannot deny that there is no evil or bad. Nature works on both Good and Bad. We equally own both but after all, it depends on us what we choose to Live up to. To quote "Being Too Good is Too Bad." Because being too good can also destroy something good as it's said, "Too much care in a relationship ruins it." That's precisely what happens when we don't keep things levelled up equally. We also need to be a little Carefree, Easy, Crazy and definitely a little bad just like the character from The Vampire Diaries, Klaus Mikaelson said, "Don't Underestimate...

      Recently, I came across a post that said "Don't discuss your private life on social media" and that really hit most of us hard and it made me write about it.          Actually nobody cares whether you live happily or you are gathered among problems. So here are 5 reasons Why Should You Keep Your Private Life Off Social Media   :- 1. Nobody Cares - All the good and the bad things  that happen to you most of them don't care. Your        private life deserves privacy because to quote, "80% don't care about it and 20% are happy that it happened."  2. Not Necessary - It's not necessary to tell people everything. They don't need to know every little thing that happens, from a small cut on your finger to something you blew up, from falling in love to winning a lottery. 3. Don't Share - If you don't share it, it doesn't mean that you don't have a good time. By sharing 10...

          To quote  " Don't be Sad because it's Over be Happy because it Happened" and to ultimately me happy you need to accept it.         We usually hear people say I will move on, I will be able to Move on from this, 24/7 we keep on thinking and saying I am moving on, move on, move on, etc. But in the end they actually keep on reminding themselves the same thing on repeat again and again.         As we all know, The more you try to keep yourself off track of something the more it come your way. "One often meets his destiny on the road he takes to avoid it."   So instead of just saying and thinking and always ending back to the same old feelings and depression the best way to actually moving on is accepting it happened.         Don't just keep saying move on Feel It, Let It Sink In, Accept It, Grow Through It and that's when you actually come to the...

                                                                              Respect       The most powerful gift that you can give to anyone you want to make happy or loved. And this is one of the most powerful weapon that you can give to yourself.... Most importantly people say "LOVE YOURSELF FIRST" but to love yourself first you Need to Respect your ownself.          You don't need anyone to complete you, God has already made you a whole complete package you just need somebody to accept you completely.           So starting over, Respect is something that everybody on this planet craves for, from a little one to all the way to old people, even animals for that matter. We all need to be respected in the uniqueness of ou...

People say that everything is FAKE , in the end it's only you, but why?? I have seen people being happy just by looking at me, loving me even when I was hard to be loved, crying in my pain. They say you come alone and you go alone , no that's not the truth. All of us need someone to push and pull us out in this world to live we don't come out automatically that's the reason we are mammals. We don't come alone we come to a family that loves us, takes care of us, is there for us in all the wrongs and the rights so that we can rise and shine in the world so that we can grow and live this life as we want to. And we definitely don't go alone we go with Karma, Love, Feelings, Memories and all that we have experienced and enjoyed in this life. Of course we do not take with ourselves the material things, luxuries, money but we do take things that are more valuable then these things. But we only understand this when it's our time to go. It's when we rea...