Poisonous Aren't We??

Not too young and not too old but; as far as I have seen life and people, I have learnt that the only relationship we have in this world is with Ourselves.

We are our Best Friends and our Greatest Enemy. Not our family, nor friends or your loved ones or enemies but us, only and only me myself can make me or destroy me. Expectations are just an escape used by us to disguise our incapabilities. Why would to expect something from someone in the first place..... Because you do not believe in yourself.

Of course, I don't deny the fact that we came into this world because of our Parents, we are given our names by Others, raised by them, loved by them but most of all we are here for the US. Obviously, we need a helping hand or someone to just be there for us but you cannot expect them to get you through.

Definitely, Friends, Family, Love, Well-wishers all of them everyone are the ESSENCE OF LIFE...... Life's Incomplete without them but what makes Life, Life and worth living are You.

In the end, it's always you who has to live your life. All of your friends and families and loved ones can walk a mile with you, guide you through but can never live your life for you. So choose wisely what you want to live up to and with. Because as the saying goes, "Your Life is 100% your responsibility."

No matter who you become or what you achieve in Life the only thing that will make you feel Low will be the things that you couldn't do for yourself. I have read and heard it like a thousand times, that "If you cannot Love yourself, then no matter what Love you get from the World you will never ever be happy, it will always be temporary."

Afterall all you have to do is be Happy for yourself not for the World, Successful for yourself not for the World, Love yourself, not the World.

I know that life's difficult without our loved ones, family and friends but it still Goes on, we still keep on living. I think even one responsible and loyal person is enough to get you through Life but most of the ones who had everything but still brokedown tore apart or drifted away are the ones that stopped believing in themselves.

No one can Break you until you decide what Breaks you.

Many people survive through extremes in their lives and still keep going with their heads straight battling whatever comes their way. But the ones those who stopped, the ones who broke were the ones who left all hopes of surviving, who stopped making and it through and accepting the worse, who gave up too quickly.

A great saying from the Old Japanese Samurai Proverbs states, "Do not speak badly to yourself. For the Warrior within you hears your words and is lessened by them."

We are the only ones that are Toxic for ourselves and we are the only ones that give ourselves the strength to get through anything and make mountains move. It's always in our own hands to look after us, to take care of ourselves. Haven't we heard it from the experienced groups and all those Great Speakers and Influencers that leave a huge impact on all of us, that we need to Love ourselves first and Value ourselves first then Why don't we apply it? Why do we always question our potential? Why can't you appreciate yourself? Why? Do you have an answer for this? -- Let me know in the comments section below.

At last, I would just like to say that Self-love is not being Selfish. Making yourself a Priority does not and will never make you Self-obsessed.

First, try to have a good bond and relationship with yourself and then achieve the same with others.