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Moving On

   

      To quote "Don't be Sad because it's Over be Happy because it Happened" and to ultimately me happy you need to accept it.
    
   We usually hear people say I will move on, I will be able to Move on from this, 24/7 we keep on thinking and saying I am moving on, move on, move on, etc. But in the end they actually keep on reminding themselves the same thing on repeat again and again.
     
  As we all know, The more you try to keep yourself off track of something the more it come your way. "One often meets his destiny on the road he takes to avoid it."  So instead of just saying and thinking and always ending back to the same old feelings and depression the best way to actually moving on is accepting it happened.
      
 Don't just keep saying move on Feel It, Let It Sink In, Accept It, Grow Through It and that's when you actually come to the point of moving on, that's when it actually stops to matter, that's when you know you are happy it happened and learned from it.
     
Because by saying and reminding yourself that you will move on you just tell yourself a Beautiful Lie that lasts only moments. When you say, all that you do is just trying, you try to keep yourself busy by doing unwanted things, you try doing things to ecsape it instead of facing it and eventually you end up empty handed and depressed. Because even after trying you couldn't make it but actually all you and to do was accept it, make efforts towards it and get through it. 
       It's better to be at peace with it instead of sleeping with your eyes open.
       
It's okay if you have lost someone, if someone left you, if you believed a lie your whole life, it's okay to fail but what is not okay is not accepting it, but what is not okay is not learning from it, but what is not okay is that you are trying to escape it.
               
  So the Motto of moving on is
     "Feel it, Let it Sink in, Accept it and Get over it."

        

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